Once again, I'm writing about friendship. This is what I mostly thinking about along this day.
There are so many people around us that could be our friends, best friends, even "special" friend. hehehe
The more people around us the more diverse character that we could learn about it. Along the "learning process" of the characters, there are several things that we have to understand. (All of this is based on my experiences).
First : We have to understand that each people has their own character so we have to know that our point of view about something won't be same for all people. So we have to have a big understanding about it.
Second : Because each people has their own point of view about something so we can't force the people to accept our opinion. Sometimes we think that our idea or opinion is the best thing then we hard to accept what other people think. This is usually be the causes of a conflict. Once again, understanding is the key.
Third : Need peoples help is something usual. But always asking help is not good. We will look not independent and spoiled. But it doesn't mean that we can't help each other, but as a personal too often asking help to the people isn't too good. The good one is if we keep often to offering help :)
Fourth : Keep our promises. When we do it, we'll get the trust the people around us then we are ready to get a bigger responsibility that has a bigger gain too :)
That's all the things that I think important for us, specially for me, to understand.
So keep our friendship "healthy" :D

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